What Were You Doing When You Decided To Try Sugar Dating?UK Sugar Daddy | Posted 07.06.2017 | Sugar Dating Blogs
Sugar dating has been around for a very long time, even before the emergence of the internet or dating sites.
Young and old go into sugar dating for various reasons, some for the pleasure and some for the money. Though when sugar dating started, it was a little difficult for individuals who were interested to find partners. Now, thanks to different online dating sites, many ‘mutually beneficial' relationships have been easier to find.
But is sugar dating in the UK simply a case of click and collect, or is online sugar dating arrangements one step away from selling yourself to the highest bidder?
This is an account of a lady who went into sugar daddy dating in the UK. I was a college student in my second year and was searching for adventure and extra cash. I then decided to try sugar dating.
The site UKsugardaddy.co.uk is where ‘the classy, attractive and affluent meet,' so I choose to sign up to this site as a sugar baby.
I signed up using the name LondonHoney77 which seemed good for a profile name. This is what I wrote on my profile – ‘I am a positive, fun-loving girl from London looking to meet somebody for good times, interesting conversation and plenty of fun. I'm open-minded and non-judgmental so have no issue with somebody who might have other commitments, what is important to me is that when we are together the time we share is inspiring and fun-filled. Life is too short to miss opportunities, and I believe in living each day to its fullest. I am sociable, well-educated and enjoy a rich and varied social life, but would like to meet someone special who I have a connection with to share intimate moments and memorable times. I'd like to meet a man who is open, kind, sensual and laid back, someone with a good sense of humor and a glass half full attitude.' With my profile completed, it didn't take long for messages to start flowing in but my enthusiasm was dented by the standard of ‘millionaire.' Shockingly most looked more like welders from Clacton-on-Sea than hedge fund managers from Knightsbridge.
Within three message exchanges, with a man from Solihull, I was asked about my thoughts on anal sex and invited out for lunch by an elderly gentleman who lived in Yorkshire and then sent a picture of himself holding a fish with a message ‘joking' about how tight Yorkshire men were with money. I expected a date dinner first at least. Either way, I declined politely.
Meanwhile, these men's profiles demanded ‘you will be slim, attractive and available for lunchtime meet-ups.' There were also messages from anonymous (aka married) members saying ‘I like going out and staying in, weekends away and holidays in the sun.
I then had a re-think, when targeting a man with money, a girl is best off checking in a more transparent pool, i.e. one that does what it says rather than masquerading as a traditional dating site.
So I decided to try UKsugardaddy.co.uk which cuts to the chase and while I was now uncertain at how many more ‘millionaires' would be on there than were on uksugardaddy.co.uk at least I wouldn't have to spend so much time talking about trout in Yorkshire or anal sex.
On the new site, the approach was direct with a form in the profile section detailing your desired arrangement and expectation, ranging from moderate to substantial and high. And within 10 minutes of being live, I had an inbox full of emails from men stating what they'd require from me and asking what I'd expect in exchange.
Messages like ‘I'd like to book you next Thursday.' and ‘My last arrangement included £250 a week, £1,000 per month long term – how does that sound?' Bloody good to be honest, oops, ignore me, just thinking aloud.
Just immediately i started chatting to a ‘millionaire, ' and within three email exchanges he was talking about what a strong connection he felt we had, and how he couldn't wait to ‘make love to me.' This took me all of 15 minutes, and I'm pushing 40 to think through. In spite of being looked down upon by many, some would say there's nothing wrong with a woman trading in on her looks and ability to laugh at jokes in exchange for shoes and rent, because it is more honest than stringing someone along acting to be in love when you're with them simply because of their money. In sugar dating, each relationship is different but very concerned about the money. The girls are there for financial help and the men because they want someone young and hot. It's an open arrangement.
However, there is more to it than simple cash for sex exchange. Some users of sugar dating sites are there for fun and companionship.
Sugar daddy dating is an arrangement between agreeing adults and a way for individuals who prefer sugar dating arrangements over traditional dating. And for some individuals, that's pretty awesome.
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